Dr
Ejiro Imuere
This is a topic so many have shied away
from addressing. But this topic is what we expected many online
"relationship experts and therapists" and Marriage Counsellors to
tell us.....Even many Clergymen don't know.
Many women are all over the Social media,
claiming to be "sex and relationship therapists", without knowing
nothing about the sexual psychology of a man.
Women accuse men of CHEATING, and men justify
cheating claiming that it is in the Nature of a man to cheat with many
women....they QUARREL over this and they DIVORCE without knowing that ERECTILE
DYSFUNCTION is the Root cause of the Problem.
I
will be discussing this issue in 5 parts, I will bring out the various types of
ERECTILE DYSFUNCTIONS and how you can treat them.
But before I start you should ponder the
following points.
1).That
ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION is very very common amongst men of today.....and because
of that it is a Multibillion Naira industry
a) The drugs Tramadol, anafranil, Viagra (
Vega) hundred and Cialis( Tadalafil) have a very high rate of sales today in
our pharmacy shops Because of ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION.
B)
Many Herbal Products in Motor parks, online and staphylococcus therapists in
Public markets have ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION as the
Reason
2).
Many Marriages and DIVORCE starts with ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION. This is because
both couple can Forgive each other and let go of their anger, when they are
hungry for sex. When a man is annoyed with his wife or the wife annoyed with
her husband, it is understandable that the anger may affect their sexual
appetites, but when the sexual urge becomes so strong and one of them needs it
badly, then that one will have to sue for PEACE and FORGIVENESS. But if the
sexual satisfaction is no longer there due to ERECTION Dysfunction, then the
QUARREL can go on indefinitely and Marriage break up is certain.
3)
Now this number 3 above is important...and this is the most form of ERECTILE
DYSFUNCTION that is highly
misunderstood...what I choose to call the Trickish or "satanic ERECTILE
DYSFUNCTION"...the monogamous home breaking type...
In this one, a man loses sexual attraction
or libido to his own wife, but gets erection to other women outside that is not
half as beautiful as his wife. The man is confused why this is happening, the
woman too is angry why her man is cheating on her with such a woman of lower
beauty and status. Some men will even get sexually attracted to their house
maids..and madam finds out , her ego and pride is killed .
Yet both of them do not realize that it is
actually a very serious disease.....
A man wants to make love to his wife, his
penis is fully erect but suddenly at the point of inserting it into her vagina,
the Penis shrinks and becomes limp like "indomie"....this happens
sometimes when the man is stressed out. But what happens when it begins to
happen repeatedly?? Then it will now induce fear , fear and torment to touch
your wife BECAUSE you are afraid that the erection will fail... Performance
anxiety takes hold of you leading to depression. You are now frustrated and
your wife too is also frustrated.
You think something is wrong with your
sexual system and with time you are withdrawn from her. Then suddenly there is
another lady that is not even as half as beautiful as your own wife, and she has been making passes at you but you are
fateful to your wife...but one day both of you get talking and from mere talk,
your erection gets very hard and you end up having a satisfactory sex with
her.... Waooooo you suddenly realize that you are now a man, again that nothing
has been wrong with you all along ....you try it again with her it worked ,
again it worked...then one day you try to do it with your wife again and the
Penis limps again like indomie. Then you begin to look for answers... Could she
have a spiritual husband killing your Penis?? Well there is a medical answer
and solution we will get to that. Then you try to experiment again with another
woman and the thing works. And so you degenerate, to sleeping outside, because
that is where you can Perform. Your wife finds out that you are having an
affair with another woman...she becomes very mad, not Because of the affair,
but Because you cannot Perform at home. She begins to think that the reason why
you couldn't Perform or satisfy her all along was because you have been wasting
all your sexual prowess or energy on this strange woman , and that it is your
exhausted body that you now bring home to her..But she doesn't even know that
it was because you failed to Perform or satisfy her for reasons unknown to the
both of you, that made you run to the arms of the strange woman......she
accuses you of breaking your marriage vows of being a cheat, you accuse her of
having a spirit husband or being too jealous and Protective. After some time
you try again and the "indomie" is still there....and this situation
is now exceeding 6 months, there is now tension in the home. Little things now
cause QUARREL, things that ought to be overlooked and forgiven will degenerate
into full blown QUARREL. Man will even want the QUARREL to extend Because it
gives him room to avoid his fear and depression, which will expose his sexual
impotence before his wife.....
And many Modern Women will respond in any of
the following ways.......
1).
Many will report the matter to Family friends and relatives, and counsellors
but she will want to hide that area that my husband Penis na indomie, Because
the man has girlfriends outside to their knowledge...she will be advised to
bear, say na the Nature of men. She gets frustrated.
2)
The very good one will Forget about sexual pleasure and redirect her mind to
either love of her children or her work or business. She will accept her fate,
cohabitating with the man, yet Without sex....she does well in raising her
children and her Work, leaving her "husband for God to judge arrest or
have mercy on him".
3)
Others will transmute their sexual urge into religious activities. They will
then become evangelist and prayer Warriors, forgetting their husbands and
leaving him to do whatever he likes.
4).The
realists will buy sex Toys and use it to Masturbate, get sexual satisfaction
and move on. The reason sex Toys sell well nowadays like mad.
5).Then
some will become so frustrated that they too will have a boy friend to satisfy
them too and start to cheat....and the day they are caught , they are
brandished as evil and a "Prostitute woman" and the Marriage is
broken.
6).Then
finally some will out rightly file for DIVORCE BECAUSE, they want to satisfy
their sexual urge, yet do not want to cheat......
So far I have discuss the Preamble of this
topic...Now we are about to enter.
So
what are the likely causes of ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION in Wado city and Urhobo land
1)
Stress 2) Performance anxiety 3) Untreated and Chronic Sexually transmitted
infections 4) DIABETES..... PLEASE YOU ALL SHOULD NOTE THIS NUMBER 4... Because
diabetes is "that spirit wife" that is taking your husband from you
yet you don't know it. 5) Prostrate Problems 6) Hypertension. 7) Others.
I
will continue to discuss them one by one starting tomorrow for their various
treatments, you can inbox me.....But before I proceed tomorrow...Go online,
read or Watch videos relating to the "Physiology of Human Penis
erection".
Then
read this and it is very very important....this is were most people suffering
ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION find it difficult to understand and treat it..many don't
know that brain chemicals called Neurotransmitters mediate the erection process
and over or under secretion of these chemicals can enhance or impede your
erection. And many drugs used to treat erectile Dysfunction is just to balance
these chemicals....so read about.... Adrenaline, noradrenalin, Serotonin and
Dopamine and their role in Penis erection......
To be CONTINUED in Part 2
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