THE CONTRIBUTION OF ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION ( Weak Penis erection), TO THE HIGH DIVORCE RATE .

 

Dr Ejiro Imuere

      This is a topic so many have shied away from addressing. But this topic is what we expected many online "relationship experts and therapists" and Marriage Counsellors to tell us.....Even many Clergymen don't know.

   Many women are all over the Social media, claiming to be "sex and relationship therapists", without knowing nothing about the sexual psychology of a man.

  Women accuse men of CHEATING, and men justify cheating claiming that it is in the Nature of a man to cheat with many women....they QUARREL over this and they DIVORCE without knowing that ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION is the Root cause of the Problem.

I will be discussing this issue in 5 parts, I will bring out the various types of ERECTILE DYSFUNCTIONS and how you can treat them.

  But before I start you should ponder the following points.

1).That ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION is very very common amongst men of today.....and because of that it is a Multibillion Naira industry

   a) The drugs Tramadol, anafranil, Viagra ( Vega) hundred and Cialis( Tadalafil) have a very high rate of sales today in our pharmacy shops Because of ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION.

B) Many Herbal Products in Motor parks, online and staphylococcus therapists in Public markets have ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION as the  Reason

2). Many Marriages and DIVORCE starts with ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION. This is because both couple can Forgive each other and let go of their anger, when they are hungry for sex. When a man is annoyed with his wife or the wife annoyed with her husband, it is understandable that the anger may affect their sexual appetites, but when the sexual urge becomes so strong and one of them needs it badly, then that one will have to sue for PEACE and FORGIVENESS. But if the sexual satisfaction is no longer there due to ERECTION Dysfunction, then the QUARREL can go on indefinitely and Marriage break up is certain.

3) Now this number 3 above is important...and this is the most form of ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION that is  highly misunderstood...what I choose to call the Trickish or "satanic ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION"...the monogamous home breaking type...

   In this one, a man loses sexual attraction or libido to his own wife, but gets erection to other women outside that is not half as beautiful as his wife. The man is confused why this is happening, the woman too is angry why her man is cheating on her with such a woman of lower beauty and status. Some men will even get sexually attracted to their house maids..and madam finds out , her ego and pride is killed .

  Yet both of them do not realize that it is actually a very serious disease.....

    A man wants to make love to his wife, his penis is fully erect but suddenly at the point of inserting it into her vagina, the Penis shrinks and becomes limp like "indomie"....this happens sometimes when the man is stressed out. But what happens when it begins to happen repeatedly?? Then it will now induce fear , fear and torment to touch your wife BECAUSE you are afraid that the erection will fail... Performance anxiety takes hold of you leading to depression. You are now frustrated and your wife too is also frustrated.

   You think something is wrong with your sexual system and with time you are withdrawn from her. Then suddenly there is another lady that is not even as half as beautiful as your own wife, and  she has been making passes at you but you are fateful to your wife...but one day both of you get talking and from mere talk, your erection gets very hard and you end up having a satisfactory sex with her.... Waooooo you suddenly realize that you are now a man, again that nothing has been wrong with you all along ....you try it again with her it worked , again it worked...then one day you try to do it with your wife again and the Penis limps again like indomie. Then you begin to look for answers... Could she have a spiritual husband killing your Penis?? Well there is a medical answer and solution we will get to that. Then you try to experiment again with another woman and the thing works. And so you degenerate, to sleeping outside, because that is where you can Perform. Your wife finds out that you are having an affair with another woman...she becomes very mad, not Because of the affair, but Because you cannot Perform at home. She begins to think that the reason why you couldn't Perform or satisfy her all along was because you have been wasting all your sexual prowess or energy on this strange woman , and that it is your exhausted body that you now bring home to her..But she doesn't even know that it was because you failed to Perform or satisfy her for reasons unknown to the both of you, that made you run to the arms of the strange woman......she accuses you of breaking your marriage vows of being a cheat, you accuse her of having a spirit husband or being too jealous and Protective. After some time you try again and the "indomie" is still there....and this situation is now exceeding 6 months, there is now tension in the home. Little things now cause QUARREL, things that ought to be overlooked and forgiven will degenerate into full blown QUARREL. Man will even want the QUARREL to extend Because it gives him room to avoid his fear and depression, which will expose his sexual impotence before his wife.....

  And many Modern Women will respond in any of the following ways.......

1). Many will report the matter to Family friends and relatives, and counsellors but she will want to hide that area that my husband Penis na indomie, Because the man has girlfriends outside to their knowledge...she will be advised to bear, say na the Nature of men. She gets frustrated.

2) The very good one will Forget about sexual pleasure and redirect her mind to either love of her children or her work or business. She will accept her fate, cohabitating with the man, yet Without sex....she does well in raising her children and her Work, leaving her "husband for God to judge arrest or have mercy on him".

3) Others will transmute their sexual urge into religious activities. They will then become evangelist and prayer Warriors, forgetting their husbands and leaving him to do whatever he likes.

4).The realists will buy sex Toys and use it to Masturbate, get sexual satisfaction and move on. The reason sex Toys sell well nowadays like mad.

5).Then some will become so frustrated that they too will have a boy friend to satisfy them too and start to cheat....and the day they are caught , they are brandished as evil and a "Prostitute woman" and the Marriage is broken.

6).Then finally some will out rightly file for DIVORCE BECAUSE, they want to satisfy their sexual urge, yet do not want to cheat......

    So far I have discuss the Preamble of this topic...Now we are about to enter.

So what are the likely causes of ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION in Wado city and Urhobo land

1) Stress 2) Performance anxiety 3) Untreated and Chronic Sexually transmitted infections 4) DIABETES..... PLEASE YOU ALL SHOULD NOTE THIS NUMBER 4... Because diabetes is "that spirit wife" that is taking your husband from you yet you don't know it. 5) Prostrate Problems 6) Hypertension.  7) Others.

I will continue to discuss them one by one starting tomorrow for their various treatments, you can inbox me.....But before I proceed tomorrow...Go online, read or Watch videos relating to the "Physiology of Human Penis erection".

Then read this and it is very very important....this is were most people suffering ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION find it difficult to understand and treat it..many don't know that brain chemicals called Neurotransmitters mediate the erection process and over or under secretion of these chemicals can enhance or impede your erection. And many drugs used to treat erectile Dysfunction is just to balance these chemicals....so read about.... Adrenaline, noradrenalin, Serotonin and Dopamine and their role in Penis erection......

    To be CONTINUED in Part 2

 

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Aba Power lights a new era in the South-East.

 

 By Chidorum Nwakanma

 

Vice President Kashim Shettima made two crucial stops in the SouthEast on Monday, 27 February 2024, all connected with power and the region’s progress.

At Enugu, Shettima launched the South-East leg of the Light-Up Nigeria Project as part of the South-East Business Roundtable. Four governors of Enugu, Anambra, Ebonyi and Imo supported him.

At Aba, Shettima commissioned the 181MW Geometric Power Plant that would serve the commercial city of Aba and a ring-fenced area covering nine of Abia State’s 17 local governments.

The optics of both occasions were brilliant and positive for the Federal and regional governments. Geometric Power in Aba attracted massive publicity and attention, and citizens ululated it for its significance and promise.

The 20-year trajectory of the Geometric Power Plant in Aba was part of the backdrop for the significant interest in the project. The project's many sub-plots, twists and turns speak to resilience, entrepreneurial drive, sabotage, and overcoming obstacles.

Geometrics received a federal government concession to run an independent power operation to service Aba and a ring-fenced area off the area covered by the Enugu Electricity Distribution Company. Enugu Electric refused to let go.

In that period, the project featured roles by many of the region’s power brokers. Former governor Orji Uzor Kalu received the expression of interest and allocated land for it. Governor Theodore Orji constructed the access road to the project site. Governor Okezie Ikpeazu invested Abia State’s $3.5mm for a three per cent stake.

Dr Benedict Oramah of Afreximbank kept faith with the vision of empowering Aba and the region.

Incumbent Governor Dr Alex Otti approved the initial loan of $75m for Geometrics as a director in First Bank. Still, the loan was only realised when he served as managing director at Diamond Bank.

WTO Director General Dr Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala and the former President of the World Bank, the late James Wolfensohn, inspired and triggered Nnaji to consider the project in the first instance.

Prof Barth Nnaji, an engineer and one-time Nigerian minister, is the promoter of the $800m project. Geometric Power Group will manage Nigeria’s first integrated independent power plant.

Geometric Power has a license to produce 188 MW. It has an embedded power plant to generate and distribute its power. While Geometric Power Aba Ltd (GPAL) develops, consumers will interface with Aba Power Limited Electrical (APLE), which would service Aba and the nine local governments.

The Significance

Aba Power will address a critical need. Aba, a major commercial and manufacturing hub in Southeast Nigeria, has been severely hampered by chronic power shortages. This new Geometric Power Plant addresses this critical infrastructural gap that has stunted productivity and development.

Geometric Power represents symbolic progress for the company, Aba, and the region. It confirms the region’s trajectory of private enterprise and the tradition of striking out against the standard run.

The commissioning of this plant represents a significant step towards reliable power supply in the region. It marks a tangible victory against crippling power problems, which have long frustrated residents and businesses alike.

Aba Power would potentially catalyse faster economic growth. Consistent power supply is crucial for industrialisation and sustainable business growth. Aba Power promises to attract new ventures, support the expansion of existing businesses, and create significant job opportunities.

It should improve the quality of life. Reliable electricity enhances residents' overall quality of life in Aba and surrounding areas. With stable power, families can improve their daily lives, students can have more effective study hours, and businesses can thrive beyond daylight limits.

It could lead to demographic shifts and the expansion of Aba and increase its appeal and attraction. With regular power, Enyimba City would grow in interest and appeal among cities in the South of Nigeria.

The Potential

Aba Power would boost manufacturing in the city, renowned for innovatively cobbling things together. Aba Power can revitalise and supercharge this sector and transform this city into an even more productive regional hub.

It can expand Aba’s service sector. Improved power supply will allow growth in the service sector. Businesses in hospitality, entertainment, information technology, and many others can now operate with fewer restrictions and provide enhanced services.

A guaranteed power supply is vital in attracting foreign and domestic investment. Aba Power could position the city as an attractive destination for diverse economic ventures.

Aba Power's success could be a successful model for other regions facing power challenges. This pilot could spark similar initiatives across Nigeria, catalysing more comprehensive improvements in the nation's power sector.

Important Considerations

While Aba Power holds significant promise, vital factors will determine its long-term success. To achieve its full potential, the power plant needs sustainable revenue models for efficient operation, maintenance, and future expansion.

Even with adequate generation, reliable distribution networks are essential to reach consumers effectively. Investments in transmission infrastructure must be prioritised.

Effective government, private sector, and local community collaboration will be critical for ongoing maintenance, security, and expansion efforts.

The commissioning of Aba Power's first turbine represents a hopeful turning point in Aba's history and a potential game-changer for the region's socioeconomic development. The extent of its success depends on the ability to build on this momentum, address long-term sustainability, and invest heavily in associated infrastructure. Aba Power could ignite a transformative era of progress and prosperity in the Southeast if adequately nurtured.

 

 

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Stop Your Plan Relocation of Our School, Ozoro People Tells GOV. Sheriff.

 

By Comrade Joseph Owigho.

Earlier today, the people of Ozoro, in Isoko North Local Government Area of Delta State took to the street in their large numbers to protest against the plan relocation of the faculty of Management Science, of the Delta State University of Science and Technology, Ozoro to Orerokpe.

The protest which was organized to demonstrate the people's disapproval over the plan relocation was generally peaceful.

Recall that, Rt.Hon. Sheriff Oborevwori, the Governor of Delta State in a letter now circulating in the social media has directed the Governing Council of the Delta State University of Science And Technology, Ozoro to relocate the faculty of Management Sciences of the newly established University from Ozoro to his home village, Orerokpe

The move by the State Governor which now appears to prioritize political interest over educational integrity has met with strong opposition from the people of Ozoro, and Isoko Nation generally.

The people view the move as a well-calculated attempt by the State Governor to further marginalized Isoko Nation and weaken the newly established university hence, they staged out a peaceful protest to registered their disapproval of the over plan relocation.

So, as early as 6am, the people of Ozoro and its neighborhood united together in a just cause and staged a walkout from the center of the town to the University main gate to pressed home their demands.

The protesters which comprises of men, women, youth and even children were seen carrying placards and banners bearing different inscriptions to demonstrate their positions.

During the protest, major economic activities and vehicular movement in the town and along the Asaba express road were completely grounded.

Obviously for the moment, there is no gainsaying in the fact that, the Delta State University of Science And Technology, Ozoro is under an attacked by the Governor Sheriff led administration.

If his plans relocation of our faculty is allowed to succeed, he will surely comeback for another, and the current established academic environment will be disrupted with serious economic impact on the town and the quality of education provided hence, this move must be resisted by all and sundry.

Again, let us not forget that, the Delta state University of Science and Technology Ozoro is not a legacy project of His Excellency, Rt.Hon Sheriff Oborevwori.

The school is the default Delta State Polytechnic, Ozoro which was established by His Excellency, Chief Jame Ibori, and was among the three (3) state-owned institutions that was formally upgraded to state universities by His Excellency, Dr. Ifeanyi Okowa.

Two (2) of the upgraded institutions were located in the Delta North Senatorial District and one in the South.

Relocating the faculty of management science, which is considered the biggest faculty, with eight (😎 departments to Orerokpe under any disguise is completely malicious against the good people of Isoko Nation and Delta South Senatorial District.

This move must not be allowed to stand.